The Sibling Peace Pack — 38 Printables to Stop the Fighting Escalating

He started it.

You didn't see who started it. You never see who started it. And the twenty minutes you spend trying to establish who started it is twenty minutes that teaches both of them that the winner is whoever tells the story loudest.

This pack drops that question entirely and replaces it with a process both kids can run without you in the room.

📦 What's inside — 38 pages

• The Fight Fair rules poster — five rules, pictures, small enough to memorise
• 12 conflict scripts — including the two-sentence one you say instead of playing judge
• The Repair Letter — three versions by age, including a draw-only one for pre-readers
• Turn-taking timers and tickets — for the toy, the front seat, the iPad, the good cup
• The Family Agreement — one page everyone signs, including you, with the consequences written down before anyone's angry
• "What I need from you" cards — the thing older siblings actually can't say out loud
• A jealousy set — for after a new baby, or when one kid's need is eating the household

🖍️ How it works

Do the Family Agreement on a calm Sunday, never mid-fight. Put the Fight Fair poster where they both walk past it. Then stop adjudicating and start pointing at the poster.

❓ Common questions

Big age gap between mine — does this still work? The scripts assume a gap. There's a specific set for when one child is developmentally years ahead.

Three or more kids? The turn-taking tickets and agreement scale to five.

Digital download. Nothing physical ships. PDF, US Letter + A4.